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Mike & Courtney- Caribbean Honeymoon Giveaway Winners!
The Honeymoon was a dream come true thanks to Where to Get Engaged! We found ourselves whisked away after our wedding day to the beautiful island of St. Thomas in the US Virgin Islands, “America’s Caribbean”. Our stay on the island was at the luxurious Marriott Frenchman’s Reef and Morning Star Beach Resort which is perfectly perched overlooking the most beautiful harbor we have ever seen on one side and overlooking the beach leading out to miles and miles of beautiful sea on the other side. The beach at the resort was amazing. The exclusive white sand beach and warm water were just what we needed to relax after all of the wedding excitement.

When we arrived at the hotel a bit early, they encouraged us to eat at the restaurant overlooking the water for lunch, because our room wasn’t ready yet. We ate an enjoyable lunch and then went to check on our room, but it still wasn’t ready yet. So we decided to go grab a beverage (or two) at the RumBar sunset deck and just enjoyed sitting together as the sun began making its way down toward the horizon. Not long after, the manager of the hotel came out to meet us on the sunset deck with two keys to their top floor “Royal Suite” which they decided to upgrade us to for free because of our “patience” (It was easy to be patient because we were in paradise with each other.) and it being our honeymoon getaway! Our room was an astonishing two story suite with an amazing view of the entire harbor and a jacuzzi tub! It was amazing!
Over the next few days we enjoyed many opportunities to a lot of relaxing, but also we did have the opportunity to do some adventuring—including a day trip via ferry to near by St. John for hiking and for snorkeling. While on this neighboring island we snorkeled at the famous Trunk Bay after hiking from the dock where the ferry boat landed. It was an incredible world of color as we swam together in the midst of schools of fish right off shore.
In addition to just taking it easy and snorkeling we experienced the pirate culture that the Caribbean is so famous for by visiting Blackbeard’s castle, which overlooks Charlotte Amalie harbor. Blackbeard would use this castle, which is perched high on a hill, to look out into the sea for ships that were heavy with booty.
All in all, it was the trip of a lifetime where our hearts were united together through the experiences of adventure and romance. This opportunity would not have been possible without the help of Where to Get Engaged. Thank you so much!
Congratulations to Mike and Courtney, our Caribbean Honeymoon Giveaway Winners! We wish you many happy years together!
Fabulous Finds: August
Time flies when you’re having fun! This month’s “Fabulous Finds” post marks the end of summer and all that we love about it, from colorful flowers, fun paper poms, bouquets made from cotton and romantic rings. Enjoy looking at some of our favorite things from this season as we prepare for the another beautiful time in the wedding world: Autumn!
1. Photo Fans.
A great way to incorporate photos into your wedding decor is to put your image on fans with a program printed on the other side.Perfect for an end-of-summer fete in need of a cool breeze!
Jordyn and Bradley by Tec Petaja Photography
2. Purple Allium.
These adorably dainty yet buxom flowers wowed me right away, especially because I had never really noticed them before. Maybe I had never heard of them because they actually come from the onion plant! They have a modern, full look that will brighten up any arrangement, and are ideal for summer outdoor weddings.
Purple allium flowers from Nature Hills Nursery

Purple allium wedding invitations, Two For Joy Paper.
3. Paper Poms.
I’ve been loving poms since I first saw them used for a gender reveal party for an expectant mother. I think they’re perfect fun for any party, especially an outdoor wedding. They add such a distinct look that you would never imagine they’re made from paper and very affordable!
Emarie and Nick’s wedding. Images by Jen Good.
4. Cotton Floral Arrangements.
Who knew cotton could be so glamorous? These arrangements are light, airy, organic and most importantly, very unique. I think they would give a heavenly element to any wedding decor and hope to see more of them in the future!
5. Venetian Inspirations.
I’m not just saying this because Venice is my favorite city on earth, but how beautiful is the new Venetian Collection by Verragio? This line of engagement rings and wedding bands has a flair for style and the perfect combination of old-world craftsmanship and cutting edge technology. Featuring Verragio’s signature crown shaped bezel beneath the center stone and meticulous attention to detail, each ring within the Venetian Collection puts an emphasis on accentuating the side profile. Ahh, it takes me back to the magical city of romance and gandolas…who could resist? Guys, if you’re looking for the perfect ring to complete your sentimental proposal, you’ll find it in this collection!
Helpful Groom Duties: Planning the Transportation
One of the things the groom-to-be can help with in the wedding planning process is organizing the transportation. What transportation? You may be assuming these kinds of things just work themselves out while your bride is silently freaking out in her head one hundred times a day over not just how she and her new hubby will make it from the church to the reception but how her lipstick and purse will make it, too. (Yes, guys, we really do think about these things.) So if helping your bride hasn’t been on your radar since getting engaged, this is a good time to do some research and impress your fiancee with your knowledge and willingness to help plan something that she probably sees as a hassle. If she is waiting for you to take some initiative, and you don’t want to fall trap to helping with the typical “girlie” stuff, then this is the perfect way to get involved. First and foremost, begin by organizing the transportation for the wedding party members (most importantly the guests of honor–you and your lovely bride).
Some things to consider:
1. How is the bridal party going to get from the hotel (or pre-ceremony location) to the ceremony, then to the reception, and then back to the hotel?
Consider providing a limo or other special vehicle to transport the entire party, at least from the ceremony to the reception.
2. Where can belongings be stored during the ceremony (especially for the bridesmaids who will undoubtedly have a bag with their toiletries and change of clothes from before the wedding) and how will they be safely transported and stored at the reception?
I suggest having a room mapped out for things to be stored in at the church or ceremony location.Just be sure the bride and groom’s belongings are kept away from one another so they don’t potentially run into each other unexpectedly before the big moment! Then place an usher or friend in charge of making sure everything gets transported to the reception and placed in another safe, central “room” where the bridesmaids or groomsmen can go to find their belongings when they’re ready to head out for the night.
3. How will the wedding gifts be transported from the church to the reception and to your future residence?
I would suggest putting an aunt or close family friend in charge of this so you don’t lose any gifts along the way.
4. Will the bride and groom have their own “getaway car” after the ceremony or will they be riding with the rest of the bridal party?
Plan ahead to have a driver from the ceremony and reception. My husband and I had a friend drive us from the ceremony to the reception in our “new to us” white Landcruiser. No, it wasn’t a limo but it was very special to us and it’s beautiful white sheen had a definite wedding feel. My husband had champagne waiting for us and our “driver” let us enjoy some time chatting away on the way to our big party.
5. How will the bride and groom get to their hotel or sleeping destination after the reception?
Make sure you have a sober driver in mind if needed. The last thing you want to worry about on your wedding night is how you will be arriving to your hotel room.
6. Will you be leaving for your honeymoon immediately from the reception or the next morning? If so, how will you get your luggage to and from the reception and how will you be getting to your destination or the airport?
Offer to help your bride pack for the honeymoon and deliver your bags to your hotel room ahead of time if possible.
7. When you arrive at your honeymoon destination will you need a ride from the airport to your resort? If so, plan ahead and find out the name of the shuttle service to be looking for. Stepping off the plane in a foreign country can be very intimidating with a plethora of drivers shouting names in different languages!
This can be more stressful than you think, and I was very impressed with my husband when we arrived at the chaotic Cancun airport and he knew exactly who to look for to whisk us away to our resort.
Monday’s Montage: Bridesmaid Gifts
Finding the perfect gift for your bridesmaids in your price range can be a daunting task. You want it to be personal, sentimental, pretty, and of course, useful. These six ideas are bound to spark your interest and help you narrow things down as you prepare to thank your best friends for being a part of your wedding day. Many brides give their gifts the day before the wedding at the bridesmaids luncheon or rehearsal dinner. Good luck choosing the best gifts for your girls!
1. The Classic: I gave my girls monogrammed tote bags filled with helpful wedding day goodies like gum, lip gloss, and tissues and have seen many others do this since. You can’t go wrong with this traditional route! These personalized picnic tote bags are from Beau Coup (top left).
2. The Personal: Another personal gift is the monogrammed robe wrap. This can be used for the day of wedding preparations and makes for a really cute picture! Check out The Palm Gifts for these monogrammed spa wraps with hot pink and black ribbon (top right).
3. The Stylish: Giving away matching clutch purses is a great idea for the bride that wants her girls to be coordinating on the big day. These “Alexis” clutch purses were made by A03 Designs Studio using pieces of the bride’s mother’s veil! How cool? (bottom left)
4. The Practical: Add some coordinating flip-flops or comfy shoes for your bridal party to your gift to ensure everyone has happy feet at the reception! Try these SwitchFlops in Lulu Brown from Rebecca Kathleen Bed, Bath and Lingerie Boutique (bottom left center).
5. The Useful: This is a new favorite among my friends. It’s personal, and can actually be used for many years.Consider a monogrammed picnic basket or market tote like this pink floral one from Simply Sassy Trendy Gifts and Trinkets. You can also fill it with additional gifts for your girls, like snacks for the wedding weekend (bottom right center).
6. The Jewels: A traditional stand-by gift and another way to have your maids coordinate on your wedding day is to give matching jewelry. Choosing a style that goes well with the dresses will prevent a mismatch of pieces and give a uniform look to the party. A coordinating set like the Oscar Collection from TARA Pearls would be beautiful with any attire! (bottom right)
What are some of your favorite bridesmaid gifts?
Monday’s Montage: Cool Cake Toppers
Twenty years ago cake toppers were a dime a dozen–the traditional bride and groom in the classic white gown and black tux. If people wanted to mix things up they would use the quasi-funny groom being dragged to the alter by his eager bride. Well, things in the wedding industry have gone from very generic and basic to extremely personal and unique, and cake toppers are no exception. Some range from the couple’s monogram or initial to something that represents the couple, like a Labrador Retriever or sailboat. Others get classy with exquisite flowers, get funny with wacky figurines or get funky with something vintage or unique to their interests. Some cake designers can even recreate the bride and groom’s face and body using a photo of the couple! With all of this customization, choosing your cake topper can get complicated. Here are some neat ideas:
Overall, your cake topper is just another way to display your personality and have some fun. Here are some unique options to explore:
The Monogram: This is a very popular choice for the classy, traditional wedding from Buttercream Dreams, LLC (top left).
The Floral Delight: This is a very easy option that will easily coordinate with the rest of your wedding theme. You can even place the bridesmaid bouquets around the cake to further tie in the floral theme. Check out more like this with Buttercream Dreams, LLC (top left center).
The Humorous Hobby: If you share a funny interest or collection, consider displaying it in your cake topper, as seen in this creation by Carrie Ashton of Buttercream Dreams, LLC (top right center).
The College Sweethearts: A college mascot in couple form is an adorable way to honor your alma mater. These Virginia Tech Hokies look great as bride and groom and represent the couple in a personal way (top right).
The “Taste”ful Approach: Grapes or other foods can be used as cake toppers, as well. These grapes would be especially appropriate for a vineyard wedding. Check out more designs from Cakes Unlimited (bottom left).
The Nautical Theme: Using a theme that’s especially close to your heart and harmonizes with the rest of your wedding adds a special touch, whether in your cake topper or groom’s cake, as seen in this masterpiece done by Nancy’s Fancies (bottom left center).
The Personal Production: This couple had mini-mes created out of clay to match themselves to a “t.” Check out Kelli’s Cake Creations to get yours made (bottom right center)!
The Customized Creation: This cake is made to order by Chele’s Customized Cakes to represent the bride and groom’s love of the winter weather (bottom right).
What are some more cool cake toppers you have seen? Send me some pictures or post some to your profile to share with other readers!
Real Weddings with David and Jennifer
For our Real Weddings feature, David and Jennifer have been chosen to share the beautiful pictures from their 10 year vow renewal ceremony. I especially love those hanging lanterns! Read on as we see the intimate details that made their celebration unique.
From their photographer, Jason Keefer:
When they got married, David and Jennifer didn’t get a chance to really celebrate because David was immediately deployed to the Gulf.

How cute are those uniforms?
Ten years later, they had an intimate ceremony and reception amongst their children, family and close friends at Jennifer’s parent’s home in Manakin Sabot, VA.
Many of the decorations were handmade or found in craft stores.
I always love the use of mason jars, especially in the summer! See Fabulous Finds: July for more creative uses!
The mix of gingham ribbon and polka-dot pots is so country chic.
Such presence.
Accents of pink bring out the spring-time feel of the outdoor ceremony.
Gerbera daisies stand-out against delicate glass vases, adding to the country spring theme.
Little guys sport their navy gear in support of the groom.
I especially love these hanging lanterns. They add such a romantic element to the reception.
An intimate evening under the trees…
Love in bloom.
Thank you David and Jennifer for sharing your beautiful day and Jason Keefer Photography for the lovely images!
Monday’s Montage: Transporation Ideas
If you’re looking to relieve your bride-to-be in a big way, planning the transportation to and from the ceremony and reception will be a huge help.
Your transportation should match up with the theme and feel of your wedding, and of course your personalities. Here are some options:
The Fairytale Option: The horse drawn carriage would be perfect for a dreamy wedding scene, just like this one from Martini Ranch Carriages (top left).
The Eco-friendly: Consider renting a rickshaw or pedicab to cart you and your earth conscious bridal party to and from your ceremony or reception. Some have the capacity to transport as many as 45 people at any given moment and can provide all-season canopies and warm blankets, to make guests comfortable no matter what the weather. Check out Cream City Rickshaw, Inc. or Boston Pedicab for some ideas (top center).
The Classic Car: The Vintage Rolls Royce would be downright swanky and super-impressive. See Best Car in Town to take a closer look (top right).
The Trendy Vehicle: The stretch Hummer limo would show some style and personality for the big entrance. Check out Churchill III Luxurious Limousine Service, Inc. for this beauty (center left).
The Traditional Limo: A black stretch limo always makes a grand entrance. Check out Andrus Limousine for some options (center right).
The Party Bus: For the fun-loving bride and groom consider a full-on “party bus” like this one from Top Dog Limo Bus and the celebration will be nonstop from the moment you begin your big day until the last party-goer is put to bed (bottom left).
The Hometown Icon: A trolley would give small town charm. Try the Grand Rapids Trolley Co. for more ideas (bottom right).
Have you seen any unique transportation ideas?








































































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