Rules Of Engagement

Anyone who has ever watched Ace of Cakes needs no explanation as to the fun and usefulness of the groom’s cake. The tradition of the groom’s cake began as a way for the guests to be able to take home individual pieces of the cake to enjoy later at home. The wedding cake would be eaten at the reception as usual and before the guests left, the groom’s cake would be packaged up for the guests to reminisce over and enjoy at a later time. This tradition has evolved into being a gift from the bride (usually) and is a reflection of the groom and his personality. It is to be a gift for the groom although now it is usually served to guests along with the traditional wedding cake.

Although the groom’s cake does not need to be a surprise, it is a great way to give the groom his own spotlight on a day that tends to be more bride focused. While the main wedding cake usually has a flavor that appeals to everyone, the groom’s cake is traditionally a flavor that the groom will especially appreciate and love. It also is a great way to break the ice before the cutting of the wedding cake and can be a very fun way to start dessert! How can a cake show a groom’s personality? It is really amazing what people are now able to do with cakes. You can showcase the groom’s interests, hobby, job, or even an inside joke that you can explain to your guests if you feel inclined! This will also let them in on a little something special with your relationship and will make guests feel included. The cake does not need to be (and should not be!) a flat sheet cake that you get at your grocery store. Visit Ace of Cakes for great ideas and flavors. The possibilities are really endless!

Another option is to serve the groom’s cake at the rehearsal dinner instead of at the wedding reception. This way, the attendants get something special that will not be available at the wedding and this way, you aren’t serving two cakes at your wedding reception. Also, because the groom’s cake is traditionally supposed to be a bit smaller than your wedding cake, it’s great to serve for a smaller set of people. Whatever you choose to do, get a bit of your groom’s input but don’t give away the surprise!

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